One big thing. Seriously, if you stay with someone that cheats after you find out, it is your own fault for staying (And I know, I was a dipshit for a minute...18 months or so). If it hurts you so bad your mate is cheating or has cheated, pull a Josh Hartnett and snatch that mother-fucker up in a bear trap or let them fuck around and take it like a champ. Dont bitch to me about how "men suck" because you dont (and DIDNT) have the common sense to leave his trifiling ass. It's not making an excuse for the offender, it is about owning up to your own mistakes and taking yourself to task about how you want your relationship to be. In other words: chalk it up as a loss, charge it to the game and leave that fuck. Dont ask me for sympathy for your lack of initiative and get pissed when I give you the what for. Thats one to fucking grow on. You know what to tell him:
Not being mean, just being real.
GO SEE 30 DAYS OF NIGHT! Vampires get sawed in half and snatched up in bear traps! What is not to like?!
